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Kiera has been a soul midwife for more than a decade, bringing another element to her role as a lead nurse at .

“There are many overlaps between birth and death,” she explains.

“A midwife supports the pregnant woman and her family, negotiating priorities and changing plans. As a soul midwife, my role is similar.”

Also known as a death doula or an end-of-life companion, a soul midwife supports people who are dying. They work with individuals to enable them to regain some control over their situation and ensure their independence is maintained and their preferences heard.

It’s not a clinical role but each individual brings a different set of skills to the position. Kiera offers soul midwifery (outside her hospice role) in exchange for donations from people, so if they can't afford anything, it's offered for free.

As a palliative care nurse, Kiera understands the health care system, the terminology, the support available and can recognise the physical signs of approaching death.

A soul midwife generally provides support at home, but they could also be in a hospital or elsewhere. The role could be practical, working with someone in the last year of their life, where key tasks could be making supper and feeding the dog so a carer can have a whole evening off. Or it could be about being there at the very end of someone’s life, while they are dying, and caring for the person’s body after death.

Kiera says: “I can help people challenge assumptions. People think there are lots of legal obligations they need to consider after a loved one has died. But the main requirements are registering the death and ensuring safe and legal disposal of a person’s body. Everything else is up to the individual, but many people don’t know this.

“You don’t need a funeral director if you’d prefer not to have one. I supported one family to keep the body of their loved one at home for three days after the death. That’s what they wanted.”

Kiera also takes away some of the fear for the friends and family of those who are dying.

“It may be the first time they’ve experienced the death of a loved one. Perhaps they’ve never heard the changes in a person’s breathing as they approach the end of their life. What’s normal? When do they need to call for help? I’m there to take away the overthinking and additional worry,” she says.

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Shetland ponies, elephants and dogs

Kiera蜜桃直播檚 involvement in soul midwifery developed in parallel to her work as a complementary therapist and now her outside interests support her work as a lead nurse in a hospice.

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There蜜桃直播檚 also a welcoming garden at the hospice with areas to sit, including a round house with a wood-burning stove which is often used for storytelling and poetry.

A therapeutic approach

Volunteer complementary therapists visit regularly, offering a huge range of options including aromatherapy, acupuncture and sound therapy.

蜜桃直播淎s a complementary therapist myself, there are occasions where I can offer a group sound bath. These are relaxing, immersive experiences where participants listen to soothing music, powerful vibrations, and sometimes nature sounds. I offer these as a volunteer, not in my role as a nurse. We also have wellbeing days for the team because we all need to look after ourselves,蜜桃直播� says Kiera.

Carers can access complementary therapies as well.

"Some choose to take some alone time but for many, coming to the hospice is a chance for us to offer care and support to them. It can be a real lifeline to enable them to keep going,蜜桃直播� Kiera explains.

The focus is on providing comfort, enjoyment and uplift which means something different for everyone. And perhaps that蜜桃直播檚 what sums up what Kiera does in her work and voluntary roles: empowering people to make the most of the beauty in life.